I like to take the good things out of all the different shows. Les, Dave, Cody, Mick, any show that I can watch and pick up tid bits to feel better prepared. I just find them helpful. Opinion's are kinda like @$$#&/*$ everybodys got one. The way some of the adult children act and respond on this forum is very enlightening to me!. I do not want to emulate that and I don't have to. Nice to have a Choice! LOL! The one's on this forum You Know Exactly Who you are. You are living in the past over whatever. some one said or responded to you and you are not over it. I try my best to live in the moment. If your stuck in the past or what you project to be the future. You are %$#@! all over today. Its like %$#@! into a fan your the only on that feels it. I have no control over what other people do, say or how they act. Some people when there going through tragic things act in ways that maybe on becoming and out of order of there true character. I try to practice compassion towards those that falter. I have compassion for myself and that in itself helps me have compassion for others. I don't need to convince any one of anything. Actions speak louder than words.